Seven Months Old - April 15

Eko is seven months old today! The light in his eyes gets more curious and his face gets more expressive every day. He shows a wide range of feelings from flirting with mommy's camera to cackling at daddy's tickle to sneering with disgust at the taste of sweet potato.

Eko has been to four swim classes and loves being in the water. He's the youngest in the class, so while the other kids learn to blow bubbles or use the float noodles, he spends most of the half hour floating on his tummy and kicking. He'll also float on his back with just his head supported and even goes for quick underwater dives—he's surprised when he surfaces, but never scared. Both of his parents struggle with swimming anxiety, so we're hopeful that this early immersion will help him develop a fun relationship with water.

We continue to attend a play group at Sophia's Hearth on Wednesday afternoons. For an hour and a half, babies roam the room freely while parents sing and observe, then give updates, vent frustrations, and ask one another questions. It's tricky to balance naps and play group, so some days Eko gets tired in the middle of class, but he seems to enjoy being around the other kids, teething on new toys and showing off his amazing giggle skills.
This month we dealt with our first bout of explosive poop, which lasted for almost a week! Eko thought the whole thing was pretty funny and never showed signs of being ill. Still, for peace of mind we contacted our naturopath, who assured us that a little loose poop was nothing to worry about. It likely resulted from Jade's consumption of cabbage, chocolate, and an office potluck lunch coupled with Eko's first encounter with winter squash, culminating in a perfect storm that made our nights a little more complicated than usual. As we continue to introduce Eko to different foods, Jade will pay closer attention to her own diet to avoid more digestive drama. So far, Eko's still not so sure about this solid food business. We've tried avocado, sweet potato, and peas, and each has been met first with curiosity, then incredulity and disgust! Oma says Jade didn't take to food until about ten months, and he's clearly thriving on breast milk (at Eko's six month checkup, we discovered that he now weighs 20lbs, though he did drop from the 98th to the 85th percentile) so we're in no hurry!
Oma and Grandpa have visited twice this month while looking for their perfect piece of land for their new home. Eko basks in their attention—special songs and lots of cuddling! As his only grandparents, we look forward to having them just around the corner and really cherish the opportunity that he can grow up with them closely involved in his life. We're also excited to one day watch Eko play with the many new little ones recently born (like Onie and Kuan's little Marcus) or due any day (like Jess and Scott's Sierra-in-the-Belly, who we visited for a St. Patty's Day feast with an evening of peekaboo for entertainment).
Eko is generally a very easy-going little fellow, very curious of the world around him and willing to face new situations without apprehension. For example, Eko began this month perfecting the back-to-front roll, followed by the front-to-back roll, until he could roll 360 degrees with gusto as he made his way to toys across the room. But the poor little guy has recently begun showing some separation anxiety in the afternoons when Jay goes to work, a time of day referred to as the witching hour. His distress is easily solved by hanging out with mommy in his Boba carrier as they cook dinner, bake cookies, or take long walks together.
We're continually amazed at how aware and clever Eko is. Recently, he's begun to respond to his own name and he's figured out that the rainbows in the room originate from a crystal hung above his changing table—within days of its hanging, Eko would look back and forth from the ceiling to the crystal before the sun made its way to that side of the house. When we cover Eko's face with a cloth, he can now pull it off himself, making peekaboo much more exciting. He's figuring out how to rock in the wooden rocking duck that was passed on to us from the always generous Rigby family. (He's still too small to really enjoy it to its full potential, but, like most things, he's discovered that it doubles as a teether.)
Finally, to answer the question that's on everyone's mind, Eko is a great sleeper (knock on wood.) His napping routine changes constantly, but he still normally goes down for the night in our bed at 8ish and wakes up the next morning at 7ish. He sleeps through the night, though he may wiggle around when he wants to change position or be cuddled and he nurses in his sleep two or three times, but neither he nor Jade normally wake up fully. It may be that his size helps him sleep, but sometimes Sasha's warmth comforts him when mommy's not around (they've only grown closer and Eko gets so giddy when he sees her, wanting to touch her with his pinchy hands as we referee). So far we've been very pleased with bedtime, but if tomorrow he refuses to sleep through night, we can at least take comfort in the knowledge that we had seven months of restful co-sleeping.
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Six months old - March 15

At six months old, Eko fills our overcast March days with sunshine. His smiles light up our faces and his giggles come from deep in his belly. His cheerful, curious personality shines out whether he’s cuddled in our arms, watching the world go by with awe from his carrier, or wiggling on the floor and exploring his toys. He amazes us every single day.

Month six began with the introduction of solid food. Eko had become fascinated every time we ate, munching his mouth when we chewed and reaching for our plates, so we assumed he must be ready. We cooked up a batch of super-soft basmati rice, strapped on the bib, got out the tiny spoons, and watched with hilarity as he buzzed his lips and spat the goop out. He might have swallowed some, but it was probably unintentional. So we’ve been waiting a few days between attempts. We’re not in a rush – he’ll let us know when he’s ready. Till then, he can just hang out with us at the dinner table in his own little chair and “eat” his toys.
Eko has gotten sooo strong! He's become a master roller - we can’t keep him on his back for long, whether he's on the floor, bed, changing table, or even in the bath. He's very proud of himself too; he loves the applause. He can also sit upright for many long minutes... that is, so long as he doesn't turn his head or arch backward. But most of all, Eko enjoys being on his feet, whether bouncing while teething in his exersaucer or swinging in his johnny-jump-up, where he’ll take a few fast bounces to rev up, tuck up his legs, and swing! It’s fun to cook dinner while he’s right there in the kitchen doorway cackling over his acrobatics.
His bottom two teeth are coming out more all the time, and while he’s constantly chewing on anything in sight, no new teeth have showed. Still, everything goes into the mouth now. We watch him lock onto something with his eyes, like the tag on a blanket, slowly maneuver his way to it on his belly, reach out a questing hand, and shoot it into his mouth as quick as a frog snatching a fly with its tongue!

It's also been a social month for Eko. We hosted a baby gathering with Kelli and Damian's son, Zane, and Bridget and Ben's daughter, Mirabelle. While Maureen and Cliff babysat Eko, we took the twins to see The Secret World of Arrietty. On route to visit Jade's parents, we stopped in northern VT to see our friend Emily and her daughter Avela, and had lunch with Haley and Marley the following week. Then, just a few days ago, Eko attended his first play group at Sophia's Hearth in Keene, NH - it was mind blowing to watch seven month olds crawling or toddling around while Eko laid on his stomach watching a pair of twins roll over to him. So far, he seems to be a very sociable baby and really enjoys meeting new people – especially kids!
With all this play, we’re happy that he’s finally getting enough sleep throughout the day. It took some work to get Eko to take long enough naps while Jade was at work, but he’s adapted well to his new nap routine. We put him in his quilted sleep sack and walk slowly up the stairs singing Jade’s childhood song, “The mommy and the baby elephant” (an Oma original!). The room is darkened, white noise is shushing, the co-sleeper has a fuzzy sheet that smells like mama, and a warm rice bag is snuggled into his side. Then he either nurses or bottle-feeds for a few minutes before falling asleep for at least 45 minutes, sometimes longer. He anticipates the routine and, once in the co-sleeper, even reaches out for Jade to start the nursing portion! We use a monitor now and can use this time to catch up on the housework, or, when Jade’s home in the afternoon, her New Chapter work. We’re happy that he’s able to fall asleep in a variety of places – the carrier, the carseat, or just our laps – and he transitions much more easily to the co-sleeper once he’s fallen asleep elsewhere.
Eko is also quite the water baby! Bath times are a total joy to him as he kick-kick-kicks the water into a froth, pausing to look up at us with glee. To celebrate his six-month anniversary of birth, we took him to our public pool, a salt-water-filtered one thankfully, to let him explore the water. He was a natural – kicking his legs like a little swimmer and staring with wide eyes as he played with Jade. He enjoyed it so much that we're enrolling him in an eight week baby swim class. We’re all very excited about it.
Eko is such a joy to share our lives with. His vocalizations continue to surprise us. One day he’ll do nothing but buzz his lips, and the next he’s on to “wawawawa.” He recently discovered his tongue and delights in wiggling it around. He's also a great dance partner. He and Jade often groove around the house to Harry Belafonte (Jump the Line seems to be his favorite). Finally, Eko loves to giggle. We can make him laugh with funny exaggerated expressions, strange sounds, kissing noises, or the always popular peek-a-boo. He's also incredibly ticklish and will look for you when you stop in anticipation of more – take a peek for yourselves.




Five Months Old - February 15

What a difference a month makes! Every day Eko develops some new skill, encounters a new experience, and evolves more into the little boy he will become.
Earlier this month, we upgraded Eko from the sink bath to the bathtub. He loves to kick kick kick in the water! Eko has also been sneak-rolling—balancing high on his belly, then rolling over the moment we look away! He can grasp all of his toys and handle them carefully...before shoving them into his mouth.
Truly, the teething has begun. The big milestone for month 5 was the appearance of TWO teeth in Eko's lower gum. It was such a relief to finally understand why he was so fussy and having so much trouble napping. We hadn't expected teeth so soon! We've spent the month experimenting with different teethers, from frozen cloths and cold teething rings to a rubber gummy bear, but really, any object will do. He's bitten Jade a few times, but she's learned it only happens when he's 'hanging out' on the breast. When he's not eating, he is promptly disengaged!
Eko really likes to stand, so we bought him a johnny-jump-up (doorway harness) and an excersaucer (activity center), each of which allows him to stand on his tippy-toes and turn around 360 degrees. He loves the independence, and we love being able to do things in the kitchen when one of us is on our own with him.
Eko loves playing peekaboo. Jay might jump out frog-style from around a corner, or simply glance at the ceiling before making eye contact and crying "Boo!" Jay can give Eko giggle-fits by hiding behind him and tickling up his legs to his belly. Eko looks back during pauses in anticipation of the next tickle round. He loves anticipating surprises and never fails to squeal with delight during a game of “I'm gonna getcha” or “erratic elevator.” He also seems to enjoy watching Simon's Cat on Youtube.
Eko is a social baby and loves when we go to parties or potlucks. He was the center of attention at a birth circle meeting (everyone but Jade was pregnant) and he has many fans when he visits Jade at work. He also attended a library staff meeting where he sat mostly quietly in the back with his daddy. At the end, when they asked if there were any questions, Eko answered, "oooo" and ended the meeting.
Another big step taken this month was his first babysitting experiences. Jade's former manager, Graham, his wife, Lee, and their son, Gavin, spent about two hours with Eko while we had breakfast in Keene, NH. Eko fell asleep on Lee not long after we left, but was happy and awake when we returned. A week later, we treated ourselves to a hot tub and dinner while Eko hung out with our friends Seth and Julia. The three of them took a walk around West Hatfield, MA, and Eko fell asleep on Julia in his carrier. Later, he become fussy, fighting off another nap, but Seth began dancing, much to Eko's glee. He conked out after we came back and slept all the way home as well. We're so happy to know such kind and trustworthy people. It's hard being away from him, but good for all of us.

We're ending his 5th month by trying to get him acclimated to a napping schedule. Shortly after Jade returned to work, we discovered that Eko could nap for hours on Jade's lap, but resisted his daddy's many creative efforts to get him rested during the day. He's adapting to the new routine really well and constantly surprising us with what he's capable of. We fall more in love with him every day.
Enjoy the new Eko Song Two below:



Four Months Old - January 15

This month, Eko has become an intrepid explorer of the world around him. His hands can reach, grip, and pull unsuspecting objects into his mouth. (This makes us keep a closer eye on where Sasha dangles her tail.) He's fascinated with different textures and loves to scratch his fingers on the sofa, the table, our faces, the laptop. He's fascinated with crinkly things, like paper and crackly baby books, but he can only mash them for a few minutes before they 'blow a fuse' and make him cry!

He's developed the ability to anticipate events, such as an incoming tickle or his daddy coming back through the doorway he left through. Peekaboo has become his favorite game, and more than ever, he is fully aware of other people, staring at them and giggling at their attempts to make him laugh. His sunny personality really glows and he's such a delight to play with, sing to, and cuddle.

Our non-holiday week was splendid. With the world in-doors celebrating Christmas, we took a walk around the Chesterfield Gorge, ogling the gorgeous ice "sculptures" the little rushing river made as it cascaded through the cold air. Eko slept the entire time, snuggled against Jade in his Boba carrier. We took many walks with Eko that week, as the weather was often still above freezing and it was Jade's last week before returning to work.

Jade's been back at work for three weeks now and it's been bittersweet, but at least calm. Her coworkers have given her a gentle reentry and she's able to work from home part of almost every day. She enjoys the work, and even when it hurts to be away from Eko, she's comforted that he's with his adoring daddy. She came home on her first day to a sign made up of Eko's daily pictures. Jay works a few nights closing the library, so we both have solid blocks of one-on-one baby time.Eko still drinks breastmilk exclusively and we'll keep it up as long as we can. We've gotten into a pumping/bottle feeding routine that's very workable, and Jade and Eko are happy to nurse and cuddle as soon as she comes home. Jade gets really giddy on her way home and she never, ever stays late anymore!

Unfortunately, Eko has come down with his second cold, which has make the past few weeks uncomfortable for him. He wakes up stuffy and really protests when we try to help him out with his snot sucker tube that lets you hygienically use suction from your mouth. We can't wait for him to learn how to blow his own nose.

At his last checkup, Eko weighed in at 17 pounds and 27 inches long, a clear sign he's thriving! He's really strong and solid. Jade loves giving him airplane rides on her feet.

Eko's vocalization took a new leap when he discovered how to buzz with his lips. He would buzz and buzz, sometimes just buzzing for ages to the bedroom ceiling well after his bedtime. After mastering this new skill, the buzzes have become just one tool in his song box and come out only occasionally. His laughter, however, rolls from him so easily. We could try to describe how amazing and adorable it is, but we'll let Eko speak for himself:



Three Months Old - December 15

On the way back from a 5-hour trek to Jade's parents' house in upstate NY, Jay remarked, "We left with a baby and came back with a little boy." Truly, Eko has left behind his "4th trimester" and is fully present in the world.

Each day we marvel at some new understanding he has of his body, some mental leap he's made in the night. His eyes snap to focus on us, and once he does, he warbles and coos in fluent baby-speak. He watches his hands and feet with deep concentration and studies us when we eat. We even took him to see Hugo in the theater with his twin cousins. Unfortunately, the movie was so loud that Jay had to stand with him in the theater staircase below the speakers, but once there, Eko sat happily in Jay's arms and raptly watched the whole movie. He also loves to watch us play Just Dance on the Xbox Kinect and laughs. He zones on the Mac's psychedelic screensaver and wood stove fire with equal amazement.

Gone are the days when he would passively recline in our arms for hours on end. Life is for the wiggling! He loves to sit up, though he's still working on holding his own balance. He "stands" with our help and pops his head right up anytime he's on his belly. He can hold on to cloths and small toys. Yesterday he picked up a toy in his left hand, brought it to his mouth, switched hands, and put it down with his right. He also loves to grab our noses and his feet.

All of his emotions are expressed so vividly now, from delighted giggling to full pouty-faced sadness. His eyebrows are very expressive! As with all things baby, his moods, both good and bad, change quickly. In general he's a calm and contented little person. While visiting his Grandpa and Oma, everyone really connected. Eko giggled hysterically from Grandpa's zerberts and cackled gleefully at Oma's songs.

Eko got his first post-birth vaccine last week. Usually he sees our naturopath, but it's a hassle for her office to get all the vaccines, so we visited the local pediatrician. As she walked in the door, she took one look at Eko and said, "Well, you're clearly thriving." For his height, his weight is perfectly average, but for a 3 month old, he's pretty big! 16 pounds and almost 26" tall. He grows out of his clothes practically before our eyes.

Eko didn't even notice the shot, but hours later, he cried inconsolably for almost an hour - something entirely out of character for him - he usually soothes in minutes. It was traumatic for all of us, but apparently it's an expected side effect from the tetanus portion of the vaccine. Luckily the crying didn't recur and he was back to normal the next morning. We're going by a slower, leaner vaccine schedule with most vaccines being given one shot at a time a month apart, and I just hope each shot won't cause him so much discomfort. He's also working through his first headcold that we all caught. Lots of steamy showers with babe in bouncer, lots of humidifying, and snot-extractor research.

Jade returns to work at the beginning of January, and pumping at work will be the next mommy-badge to earn. She's sad to be away from Eko so much of the day, but of all jobs, hers will let her have a gentle transition, with some work from home and modified schedules. Best of all, even though she won't be with Eko all day, he'll be with Jay, just as when he's at work, he has the reassurance that Eko is with her. We'll figure it out as we go, and gradually find a balance.


And as a special treat, this Daily represents the first moment we considered Eko for our boys name. We were heading down to our friends house in Massachusetts to watch Lost on March 16, 2010.